Epilogue??

Jian's speech therapy seems to be a challenge for him, eventho he loves his teacher, Uma. When he gets frustrated, he motions to us to "be quiet". I can't imagine his frustration. He knows what he is saying. Lizzy and Mark seem to get most of it, but I was quite lost. He works harder than I have EVER seen a 2 yr old work at anything! He is brilliant! I am not saying it because he is my grandson, but he really is!!! He is diligent about most things that he does. Any 2 year old is often times challenging, but adoption comes with its own special challenges that most of us would never get if we didn't experience it or see it first hand! I will say it again, the families we traveled with are some of the most amazing people I have ever had the privilege to be with!

We got a card from Annelies, LiNa's mom. When I opened the card, I squealed with excitement! She was smiling big and looked so healthy and beautiful!! It was such a joy to see that face!! If you remember, she is the one that spent time in the hospital while we were in China! We all prayed for that little one, not knowing if she would be OK or not!

We have seen pictures of our Drama Queen Bella who fits in perfectly with her 5 siblings! So adorable!

I got an email from Tina, Hollywood Jenna's mom. Jenna has had a surgery as well and is doing great!!! She is such a stunning little girl! Her parents lives are so enriched by Jenna!

The agency that Jian was adopted from has a FB page and I occasionally check it out. It is interesting to hear parents discuss their experiences. They are all so intertwined. Although each CHILD is different, the experiences seem much the same. Almost ALL the parents talk about the 6 month mark. They say it is a turning point that makes everything come together. Kids are getting used to the parents and parents getting used to the kids. Mark said Jian has 2 more weeks! LOL!!!

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

God's plans are always better than anything we can plan for ourselves. Jian has forever changed all of our lives. He radiates a special sunshine all of his own. We knew he would change our lives, but didn't realize just how much! I know this whole China experience has left an indelible mark on my heart. From spending precious time with Mark, Lizzy, Cassius and Jian to getting to know the 5 other families who shared the common thread of adoption. 

It is with great anticipation that I look forward to what the future will hold. I continue to pray that God showers them all with blessings and graces!

On another note, by the time you read this, my neice Elizabeth will have finished her last chemo treatment and is doing amazingly well, beyond anyone's expectations!! She is an extraordinary person who has handled these last 6 months with the grace that only God can provide! God is good!

I will end with this....this is not really an epilogue, but a beginning!! The beginning of new adventures, new experiences and more love than our hearts can hold or imagine!

                                             Adam, Cassius and Jian enjoying some boy time!

                                                        First Christmas picture together!!

                                                            First Christmas tree picking!!

                                                     Little Lizzy, Jian and Aunt Sonny!

                                            Little Lizzy and Jian cutting up!! He's a funny one!!

                                                              Brothers sharing ice pops!

                                           Who rules the roost here??? The one with the IPAD!

                                                            Monkey see/monkey do!!

                                                             Horse playing with his bro!

                                Who's family is this anyway!!! Jian's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Growing up in the Lahive home

What would a blog like this be without an epilogue??? Since the story really doesn't end here, I will just tell you where we are right now!!
So, Jian has, from the beginning, fit in as though he were always meant to be with us. He is famously funny, witty, charming, adorable, irresistible and crazy about shoes! He does EVERYTHING his brother does! He gives new meaning to the phrase, "MONKEY SEE- MONKEY DO".

He has had one surgery so far that was actually 2 rolled into one. He had tubes put into his ears and he had hypospadias surgery. (Hypospadias is a birth (congenital) defect in which the opening of the urethra is on the underside of the penis.) OUCH!!!!!

Poor baby! He did well after the surgery but not without taking full advantage of the situation. He figured out that if he cried, he would get to sleep with mommy and daddy... Knowing that he has an extremely high tolerance to pain, the parents figured it our pretty quickly!

Jian goes to 'school' 2 days a week for 2 hours and he LOVES it!!! I was in California last week. (Sonny had a seizure and it was the first one she had since her brain surgery a year ago! Praise God, she is great and on seizure meds for now!) So, while I was there, I went to 'school' to pick him up with Lizzy. Lizzy said, "Mom, get your camera ready, he comes out all smiles and giggles you don't want to miss it, it's priceless!"

I have my camera ready and aimed, the door swings open and sure enough, all smiles and giggles, but I couldn't take the picture because he flew straight into my arms!!! (You know I loved that part!!)

I think that learning how to juggle the schedule of 2 children is much different than when they had one, especially when one of them comes into your life as a 2 yr old, has many Dr. appointments, speech therapy, and school. I wouldn't know what to do if a 2 year old walked into my life with his own agenda. 

Cassius has been an only child for 6 years and I am in constant awe of how well he has adjusted. He is the best big brother ever. We took the boys to Manhattan Beach to the weekly Farmer's Market. Santa was going to come so the boys were highly excited! They both climbed onto Santa's lap readily! I have to say, he was the best Santa, with an authentic beard and EVERYTHING and Mrs. Clause was just as precious! After the picture, Cassius and Jian wandered about 15 feet away. Cash put his arm around Jian and was having some kind of big brother conversation. I couldn't hear it, HOWEVER, Santa did!!! Santa got out of his seat and walked over to Cash, put his hand on his should and commended him on his 'big brother' skills of kindness, patience, and great big brotherness! Santa told Cash he would remember that!!! So sweet!

Leaving the boys!

Well, leaving my boys proved to be harder than I could have imagined! 

When we arrived home to Manhattan Beach, California, I told Lizzy and Mark that I really needed to make a reservation to go home but they said they weren't sure they were ready for me to leave! I have to be honest here, surely I thought that after 21 days of close quarters, emotions in high gear, a new 2 year old to figure out, a 6 year old that is supposed to get used to another little human in his life, a new way of life for mom and dad, SURELY, they would be tired of me! Now doesn't that just make me feel so loved!!!!!  

So, I got on my iPad and found a 1/2 way decent 1 way flight home with a layover. Although it would take me an extra 2 hours to get home, it was only $350. Mark got on his iPad and in about 3 minutes my reservation was made and I had the confirmation # in hand. 

As I was getting ready, I heard a knock at my door. "Princess, your breakfast is here!" I opened the door to a beautiful bowl of fruit! It was Mark.

Mark had to get to work, so we said our goodbyes and off he went!!! Somebody needs to work after all!!! I hung out with Cash while Lizzy got her and Jian ready for the airport.

Lizzy loaded up the suitcases as I attempted to get Jian in the car. He LOVES driving and going places, however, he forgot about the carseat situation and proceeded to struggle with his short little legs to get up into the front seat! Oh no! I surely didn't want to leave on a bad foot with him but laws are laws!!! I let Lizzy put him in it and he seemed OK with it as long as the car was in motion. 

When we got to the airport and I had to kiss my boys goodbye, it was NO BUENO!!!!!!! I hated saying goodbye. I was kissing Cash more than he likes now that he is six and he says to me, "it's ok Gaga, I know your story."!!!!! OK. What do you suppose that means? He is a funny kid! I didn't want to go crazy kissing Jian because he was already starting to whimper. I squeezed Lizzy hard, I tried not to cry, turned and left!

Waaaa!!!!!! Waaaaaaaa!!!! Waaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! 

I am just a little distraught as I enter the terminal and not sure where to go, so I got in a line. It wasn't moving so I asked a women who looked like she might know where I was supposed to be, what line am I supposed to be in! I had a paper ticket, but I would have had to dig in my never ending purse to find my glasses to see what it said! She said, "Miss, you are in the wrong line. You are in 1st class. Step over here."

FIRST CLASS!!! WHAT!!!!?!?!!!?!

This is the text I sent my son-in-law:

"Stop the madness!!! 1st class?!?! Really!?!?! Love u so much, but would still love u if I had a layover!!!!! I can't  thank u enough for including me on this intimate experience! I loved every second (except the stink)! I really am a PRINCESS or made to feel like one by all the men in my life! Luv u n miss u all already."

This is the reply:

"You deserve every bit of pampering you may get from the men in your life. So glad you came. Welcome back home but we miss you already. Luv u."

It is a blessing beyond blessings to truly love and be loved as our whole family does. Thank You, God for the gifts and graces you shower us with daily!!!

My glass railings  and refrigerator were covered with precious notes and cards from my grand babies! I got home around 9:45 Monday night and for nearly 2 hours, Paul, Idie, Nicole, Sammy, Lizzy, Buddy and Michael checked out the 2,000 pictures I took! They asked questions and wanted to know all about their new cousin!

Lizzy sent me this picture today. She  took the boys to the farmer's market today where Cassius OBVIOUSLY got his face painted!!! Love those faces!!

First play date!

Today was a busy day. We had visitors come and see Jian! Aunt Sharon and Uncle Leon came bearing gifts for BOTH boys! Auntie Julie was very excited that Jian was so playful with her without hesitation! I told her not to get to excited with herself, she looks like his "people"!!! Giggle, giggle!

Lindsay got a free pass because she brought Jian's first playmate, son Will!! Jian was a little hesitant because Will was in his playhouse! Thankfully Will is accommodating and he let Jian warm up to him slowly and then they got along splendidly! Thank you Lindsay! 

I need to run and pack so I have to make this short! I have been working from here for the last couple of hours as this is the last day of my Mary Kay year! Great way to celebrate the 50the Anniversary of Mary Kay.....successfully!!!

I would be remiss if I didn't say that Janet and Dave Lahive raised a great kid (man)! Love me some Mark and if I had to hand pick him, I couldn't have done better! I raised a smart chick, too! I also know that Aunt Lynne and Uncle Dave will fall in love with Jian just as we have! He is a joy! I love the kisses he gives out freely, so look out aunties and uncles, you are in for a treat!

FIRST PLAYDATE WITH WILL! Aren't they adorable!!!

THIS IS OUR SHOWOFF, HE IS ACTUALLY LAUGHING! His crying face and laughing face are the same!! But he was giggling here! And so darn cute!!! Love him! 

First full day home!

A 15 hour time change does some crazy things to your body, like falling on the kids bed and passing out! I should have taken a picture because that is what I saw as I passed their room and saw Mark sprawled across the bed! I quietly closed the door, he needed some sleep and the boys were in full rock out mode!

Jian wanted to go outside, and since Lizzy was cooking, I decided to take him in the stroller. I went about a half a block and was about to turn a corner when he pointed back the OTHER way, toward home, and called for "Ma, Ma!" so we turned around and went back home. He KNEW where his home was!!! Seriously! He is pretty clear about what he wants, so he wanted me to take him out of the stroller and he did not want to go in the house, but rather hold him. I held him close and he nuzzled into my neck and within 3 minutes he was sound asleep!!!! I was LOVING HIS  CUDDLY LITTLE  BODY IN MY ARMS!! SWEET!

Aunt Sonny was here and it was all giggles and laughter! He loves being chased and tickled, but what he really loves (but I admit I love it more!) is when I pretend like I can't find him. I yell out, "Jian, Jian, where are you? Where is Jian?" He comes barreling into my legs with arms open, wraps them tighly around my legs, and looks up at me like, "I am right here Gaga, where I belong!!!" PRICELESS!!

I personally passed out on the couch while Cash had Scooby full blast on the TV and Jian was coloring with Aunt Sonny.  I was super tired I guess! I needed it, too!!!!! Giggle, giggle!

I know Aunt Idie is chomping at the bit to be with him!!! Don't be jealous, Idie, you will have them all to yoursel, along with mommy, daddy, Aunt Sonny, Sammy, Lizzy, Buddy, Michael, Aunt Nicole and Alyssa! Make it count!!!

Mark and I were talking tonight (precious time we get to spend talking at night while Lizzy puts Jian down) about our trip and being able to write some thoughts down through the blog. One day Jian may enjoy reading these pages and seeing how loved he was from the get go!!! I may be 90 by the time he reads them, but he will appreciate them one day. Mark was sharing comments from one of his long time friends. I loved Mark's reply to the email and asked if I could put it here in the blog. These are his words and I loved what he had to say:

"Glad to be back. China was a great experience but happy to be home.  Jian has us and the world by the shorties and knows it.  He is hilarious, a joker and awesome.  Cash is warming to the challenge but it is one, a big one, taking on a baby bro who comes in at 2 with a fully fueled motor.  Jian was made for us. I can't say it any other way.  I can't imagine someone else being his parents or us adopting someone different.  This is our guy.  And I think he definitely agrees.  

That said the trip was a lesson in humility.  You know I'm not much of a bible thumper but the efforts from adoptive parents and volunteers we saw was amazing.  Some strangers on the street stopped us and gave us a thumbs up and bowed.  We are not worthy but it was still moving.  One of our guides said orphans in china have 0% chance of adoption in china, which may be feel good stuff but wow, seeing at least 6 kids joined with families they didn't know they could have was right up there with anything I've done.  It was one of the most human experiences ever hanging out I the hotel hall with other parents and their new kids all trying to adjust and weather the storm.  Hello perspective."

As I was starting to write tonight, there was a soft knock on my door. Mark wanted to share one more thing with me. While Lizzy was trying desperately  to figure out how to download the over 1,000 pictures I took and Mark and I were chatting, Cash went into Lizzy and Mark 's bedroom and crawled into bed with his brother! I wish I could have taken a picture, but it was too dark! PRICELESS!! 

All is working out better than we could have possibly imagined in the Lahive home.  On the East coast homefront, Elizabeth Ida had clean margins and lymph nodes came back negative. She still has decisions to make and Drs. to consult with. Please keep praying, that's our most powerful defense! Thank you for praying and sharing your thoughts on our blog! I am keeping your comments for Jian as well. I think they will be just as important to him! 

So, tomorrow as our California family heads to church in the morning, there will be extra prayers of thanksgiving! We are an extremely blessed family and we know it! 

Aunt Sonny and Jian taking a coloring break! Look at Cash in the background! Serious game!

Jian making Sushi!

Eating!!!

Home sweet home!!

We are over the moon excited to be home (well, at least in the good old USA!)!! I will be back in Maryland on Monday! Can't wait to see my honey and the rest of the babies and family!! 

What a trip to remember! I can't thank God too many times for all the graces and miracles He continually provided for us during these last 3 weeks! I thank Him for giving me Mark and Lizzy and this incredible opportunity to share these precious days with them!! And this list goes on!

We got to the airport without any drama albeit in 2 cabs!! Did you know they don't use cars seats in China! What is that about?!? So, when your cab driver actually has the opportunity to put the metal to the pedal, he does it in full throttle!! Crazy! 

The plane ride was delightful! Same incredible little bedroom-like cubicles that we had on the way to Beijing! Thank you God for Mark!!  Who knew Jian  would sleep 10 out of the 13 in flight hours! He was so good, I think he made Lizzy nervous! He surprised us all! Yay for Jian! Maybe he realized he had his very own bed! Cash was great, as well! A man on the plane stopped me to ask me if I brought my whole family with me. I had to suppress a laugh! It wasn't him, he just doesn't know MY family. I did have to answer him so I just told him just a few of us came! Blessed!

We arrived at LAX, expecting long lines and delays since we were bringing in the new kid on the block! So we get in line for US residents, get checked in, and the man who checked us in directed us to yet another area where he informed us that we would have to wait for about an hour to get Jian "welcomed to America"! What the heck did that mean?? Our little family filed down to the other end where the women behind the desk told us to go get our luggage and maybe she could have it done by then! We retrieved our luggage in record time and went directly back and Jian's 'papers' were ready! Then we headed to the customs line. We took a deep breath and headed in that direction where there were extremely long lines. Since Jian had slept so well, we were all wondering how he would be for this adventure. A FABULOUSLY WONDERFUL gentleman directed us to a 'special' line where he took down the rope to let us through and viola!!! We were out!!! Seriously, that quick! A God thing for sure!

Aunt Sonny was waiting with a house full of balloons, Jian and Cash's ceiling was filled, and a big WELCOME HOME JIAN banner splashed across the front of the house!!! We were so excited to see her and Jian took to her immediately!! She even got kisses!!! I sure hope Aunt Ida and Aunt Nicole get the same reception!!!! 

Bath time was nothing short of fun! It was so precious to see Jian fit in as if he had been here all along!! He knows he's home!!!

The only 'glitch' we seem to have is, where do we put him to sleep! We thought he would sleep with Cash. That didn't seem to work. Then Aunt Sonny got him a play pen bed and he climbed out within 2 seconds! So, that didn't work either! He did, however, fall fast asleep in mommy and daddy's bed! 

He is soooooo home! God is soooooooo good!

How cute! This is his blowfish look!!

I am officially American!!!!

First bath in his new home!

First bedtime attempt!!

Home bound at last!!

Oh my are we an excited group to be headed home in the morning!! Hong Kong is very beautiful and there is much to see, but there is no place like home!!!!

They say the Ritz-Carlton building is the tallest building in Hong Kong! While we are on the 107th floor, we found out today that they don't use floors with #4, like 24. It is nestled in the largest industrial center in Hong King so there is always something going on here! Since we got here, they have been filming a movie, so we often had to  wait to get onto the elevators between sets! Too bad I don't recognize any Asian actors here! Bummer!!! We were in and out all day so there was quite a commotion going on!

Since Jian had very few outfits and he is like Dennis the Menace, Lizzy had picked up a couple of new outfits. So he comes to breakfast with a new outfit and and within seconds he is a disaster! Whatever he eats, ends up on his clothes! Mark says when he gets home,  we will get him a black tee shirt, a tarp, a diaper and a HOSE!! Even Jian laughed at that one! 

We went through this maze of a mall that is attached to the Ritz (how many  Chanel stores can you have in one mall!?!?) in search of a Toys R Us, yes, they have one in Hong Kong! This is all part of entertaining the boys! Jian found some 'organizational' tubs, which he seems to love to do, which is funny for a messy kid!! Cash found some Hot Wheels and I took pictures! As we walked through the mall, Jian spotted a shoe store! As I mentioned earlier, Jian has a shoe fetish!!! He wanted a new pair of shoes! He is now the proud owner of his first pair of running shies! He is so dang cute! Couldn't wait to run everywhere! It was a minor miracle to find a good fit for his Fred Flinstone feet! He didn't mind trying shoes on at all!!! My kind of kid!! He is more and more like us by the day!

When we got back, Cash and Mark REALLY wanted to go to the pool and Lizzy and I REALLY wanted to go to the "Ladies Market". I thought this a strange name for an open market, but what do I know! When in Hong Kong, do as the Hong Kongs do! Lizzy said this is how you get the real 'flavor' for what the local people love to do! So, Jian, his stroller, his strap contraption Lizzy carries him on her chest with, Lizzy  and myself got in a cab and headed to the LADIES MARKET! It was about 98 degrees and there were tents and tents and more tents filled with purses, shoes, Chinese trinkets, Chinese clothing, toys, wallets, anything you could think of, it was under the row of tents!! As we wandered through, we were baited inside to make a purchase!! Merchant beware, Lizzy's bargaining skills were honed to perfection!!!! She would have made her Aunt JoAnn VERY proud. She took a merchant from a $550 purse to $150 (Chinese money) She continued her tactic with every purchase and it worked! Not that we purchased that much, we were after the 'flavor' of the people after all! 

I watched an Arab woman bargain and was very impressed! It was for refrigerator magnets, more trinkets!! I  thought I could pick up a tip or two from her!! I looked around and spotted a man who was obviously with her. As our eyes met, he said with a proud smile, "she's good, isn't she?". Yes!! I totally agreed. When she walked away, I said to the merchant, "so, how much are you going to sell those to me for?"  He looked at me and said, "the same thing I sold it to her for!!!" I guess he didn't want to waste any more time haggling with me since he just finished with her!! It was funny!!

It was so hot that we decided we enjoyed the haggling game enough and wanted to head back. We go to grab a cab and guess what, no cabs to be found. When a lone cab DID come down the street, it was full of people!! Uh oh, oh no! Now what!?! We decide to change streets but the corner we picked smelled like stinky cheese, stinky trash and stinky stink!!!!! I am sure you figured out by now I have a sensitive nose! Between the heat and the stench, I thought I would lose my stuffings!! We picked another corner, still no cab!! Jian had been a little doll the whole time (he is not nearly affected by the heat and humidity as we are, he is barely getting used to the air conditioning!) but now, he was ready to go home, too! Still no cab! Lizzy spotted an empty cab coming down the street and yells, "Mom, runnnn!!! stop him!!" What do I know about stopping a cab? I can hale a cab, but STOP one literally??! She ran out into the street and he had no CHOICE but to stop. She asked him if he could please take us to the Ritz. He said no, he couldn't. She started pleading, "can you PLEASE take us??" as he is rolling forward, he said no again. She said, "I will pay you double!!" He says no once again! I would have walked away and hoped for the best, not her!!! Now she is practically in tears, "Can you PLEASE take us, I have a baby!!!". I have a baby??? Did she just say that!!!?? I have a baby??? If she didn't look so desperate, I would have been hysterical laughing! I am hysterical writing this all over again!!  By this time, the poor guy is shaking his head. He says he is sorry but he will get fined for being late. They have some  cab driver rule, it was 5:00 and they have to be back and refueled for the next cabbie or he will get fined!! Lizzy told him she'd pay the fine!! He couldn't resist her another second! We jumped in and off we went! Turns out to be the nicest guy ever. He lived In the province where we got Jian for 9 years, told us it is one of the unsafe provinces! Glad I didn't know that! He was extremely pleasant and gave us his card if ever we come back to Hong Kong! 

We gathered the rest of our little family guys and went to dinner. Cash picked Mexican!!! I know, Mexican food in Hong Kong! Lizzy, Cash, Jian and I thoroughly enjoyed our meal, but Mark refused to take a chance this late in the journey! He figured SOMEBODY had to stay healthy!!! We really did take a chance, we have been so careful not to each anything raw, the water, all the things they tell you not to!

We toasted to a journey of a lifetime, life changing circumstances, fun, adventure and our family as Jian is so much a part of us! Mark and Lizzy thanked me for coming with them and I was speechless! I couldn't have been prouder of both of them or more honored and humbled to have the privilege to share it all with them!!! 

We left a family of 4 of us and return a family of 5 of us!!! We can't wait to get home to Aunt Sonny!!! So, look out family, here we come!!!!! Thank you, God, for this amazing life filled with blessings and graces!!!!

Lahive family!!!

The boys in Toys R Us!

Me and Cash on a cupcake in the mall!!

It's a shoe store, Mom!!!!

There's another shoe store right around this corner, Dad!!!

Jian loves to organize!! Him and Aunt Nicole will have fun together!!!

Look at those beautiful lips!!!!! He is so beautiful!!!!!!

That's what I said family, I am coming home!!!!!

Yes, I'm cute!!! 

Hong Kong!!

Well, our adventure is coming to an end in just a few short days! Today we left the China Hotel and instead of flying, Mark got us a driver and we drove. It wasn't a bad drive at all. In fact, as we traveled along, I marveled at the wonder of the world. Trees, mountains, clouds, flowers, all a beautiful sight. I guess in some ways, it is all the same, God's creation!! I was able to get in rosaries and prayers for Elizabeth today! 

HOWEVER, not all things are created equally!! For instance, our potty break was a squatty potty and, yes, you guessed it, "STINKY"!!!

I guess I am not the sharpest tool in the shed (perhaps the brightest crayon, however) but I don't think I realized we would be crossing a border!! The first border stop was to LEAVE China. They checked all our passports and had to take a 2nd look at Cash since he was sporting his surfer long hairdo in his passport picture! We never got out of the car. About 50 yards farther, we stopped at another border point to ENTER Hong Kong!! Cash got a 2nd look there, too!! That was a painless, funny experience!

Mark surprised me and Lizzy with a 2 day RELAXATION ADVENTURE in Hong Kong! As we drove up to the Ritz-Carlton, Hong Kong, I couldn't help but think of my brother, Geaton, and all the time we spent in Boston at the Ritz there! Although it wasn't a great time in our lives, Geaton managed to make it a good time always!!!

We walked into the most enormous building I have ever seen in my life!! There  were no less than 6 men and women just waiting to wait on us!! It was fabulous!!! We never touched our bags!! Gotta love that since we added 2 more!! We are on the 107th floor! My ears popped on the elevator going up! Our rooms are stunning! When we walked into the room, the drapes automatically opened! They opened up to the HONG KONG in a very big way! Buildings and buildings and more  buildings! We are so far up! You can see mountains and I think we are IN the clouds!!! Water with cruise ships. Ok, we have a coffee pot, but if that doesn't meet your liking, you also get a single cup coffee pot with a lacquered box full of gourmet coffees!!! Just fabulously delicious! 

Cash really wanted to go to the pool, so we went to the 118th floor and there was an olympic size pool with 3 jacuzzi pools that I could see! White couches and white lounging areas with tons of fluffy white pillows and navy towels and white wicker lounge chairs set in the water that was just 6 inches on one end and the perimeter of the pool! The tile around the pool and in the pool was 50 shades of sea blue tiles with little pearl tiles here and there! The walls seems to glitter and shine so I took a closer look. It looked like swirly roses with baby twinkle lights that flicker softly on and off. It was all white. The boys had such a good time!! It was such a heart warming, beautiful, loving site to watch all 4 of them playing in the water enjoying each other! Jian was happier than all the days put together and giggled and played in the water and giggled some more! I think since the first day we got Jian, this is the first day he did not have a meltdown and it seemed like this was the first day he realized he is here to stay with this family! I could have cried watching! Such a humbling and beautiful experience for me!! Yes!!! 

We came back to the room and there were 3 tangerines and a square black lacquered plate of 6 chocolate dipped strawberries nestled on a bed of tiny round chocolate balls!! How do you spell YUMMY! I am a little oinker, I ate them ALLLLLL!! All by MYSELF!!!

We got room service for dinner, nothing like room service at the Ritz! Of course, yummy again!!

It is such a joy to watch Jian play with his mom, dad, and Cash. He is a little teaser! He teases everyone! He is very playful but not so interested in toys. Maybe he didn't have many so he doesn't know what to do with them! I do know that when you tell him anything, he remembers it!

It will be a who,e new ball game as he gets introduced to his California surroundings. I pray it will be better than they are anticipating. Lizzy said she may have to call Aunt Sonny to get a sleeping thing, maybe a playpen, for him since he seems to beat Lizzy up in his sleep!! He his a brute!! An irresistible little brute and he is OFFICIALLY ours!!!

Loves his food!!

Jian loves Gaga's glasses!!

Leaving for Hong Kong! Picture with Grace! She was a doll and was especially kind!!!!

On the ride to Hong Kong, Lizzy is trying to entertain the boys with stickers!!

Family Fun!!